Monday, March 8, 2010

Was it fair to banish Shakuntala?


Shakuntala was the central character of "Abhigyan Shakuntalum" by great poet Kalidas. She was the daughter of Apsara Menaka and great sage Vishwamitra. Menaka was sent to distract Vishwamitra from meditation by Lord Indra. Menaka left Shakuntala in the forest and returned to heaven. Sage Kanva found her in midst of Shakun birds and named her Shakuntala. Shakuntala was brought up in forest. One day king Dushyant who had come to jungle for hunting and saw Shakuntala. He was lost in lust of the beauty of Shakuntala. He married Shakuntala through Gandharva system of marriage. He left Shakuntala and returned to his kingdom, gifting his royal ring to her and promising  her to take as his wife.

One day Sage Durvasa arrived at Kanva's hermitage in absence of Kanva and asked services of Shakuntala. Shakuntala lost in day dream of her beloved, failed to respond to serve him. Angered sage cursed her that he would forget her.

On her way to meet her husband, she lost her ring. The king failed to recognize her and did not accept her as his wife. She had to return to forest. In forest she gave birth to Bharat. One day when king Dushyant was returning to his kingdom after a war, he saw Bharat playing with Lion cub(counting its teeth). Fascinated to see boy's braveness, he went to find her parents. Knowing that Bharat was his son, he accepted Shakuntala as his wife and brought them back to his kingdom.

I am not here to tell you this story. But discuss with you about the failures of the patriarchal nature of Indian society. You probably know that our Indus valley society was matriarchal where society was headed by women. We have known about the great women scholars of that era like Lopamudra. Slowly as the civilization died down, gradually our society decayed also. Soon all the powers were with men, women became their mere puppets. The women lost their supreme position and were confined within the walls of their home.

This story is significant in present time. Our society is male dominated and females are restricted within household chores. Females are treated as males' property. They are thought to be baby making machines. They are tethered to male for all work. I was going through an article in Sunday Times I was moved where girls returning from school were searching dustbin for left over fruits. In poor family mothers treat their son as royal prince and give them all good care and food but girl child is treated as servants. As when the son grows up he is going to take care of her but girl will be married to other family and she has no liability on them. This habit of eating leftover food is not limited to poor family in upper class too. Mothers have habit of eating leftovers from fathers, showing their love. Have you ever heard about the opposite. Do the fathers never love them?

Returning back to the story of Shakuntala, Shakuntala's example is a classic case of manhandling by the men dominated society. King Dushyant being in her lust married her through nontraditional marriage. But when he returned to his palace he realized his mistake. How could a king marry the daughter of hermit? This was against the society. What would his subjects think when they would be aware of his marriage? This threw a question mark on the propriety of marriage. If a male wanted he could marry nontraditionally and later he could not undertake his actions.

Sage Durvasa represented the thinking of male dominated society. Females must be engaged in the household works and should not think beyond that. If she thought beyond that, then that was offense, hence punishable. But why Dushyant was not punished? This male dominated society took its pride in keeping females at the bay. They were the thinkers; they had the right to make laws governing everyone. No female representation was required. The ring symbolized the freedom she had inside her house but as soon as she came out, she lost her freedom.

Then why did Dushyant accepted her back? Each king had dream that his son would be strong who could rule his kingdom after him. Bharat was brave and strong and he needed an heir. He could foresee Bharat as the perfect one who could succeed him, he could see a great king in the making. Then the society did not question him. He was accepted as heir to the throne and on his name our country was named Bharat. No one was sympathizing with Shakuntala. Had she no power to punish him? Again the mother was recognized due to her son.


This is the time to rethink the structure of our present society and bring back our old glory. Women should be given their proper place. They should be answerable to all the liabilities of the society. Only making laws for women reservations won't work until you start resurrecting your own house. Give them the freedom and chance to perform. Who knows they can outperform you? Could you not feel what would be going inside Shakuntala's mind in court of King Dushyant who was showing no respect to Shakuntala? She had no power to express her concerns.

7 comments:

Nishant said...

The thought behind this write up is an issue which is worth pondering over, even in the recent contexts. The majority of the society today represents the sage or the king, for they fail to realize female potentials. What would you expect to get out of a country where proposals to female reservation bills are torn in front of and during the discretion period of the chief of the legislative assemblies. Would you expect a country to flourish where 50% of the population is untapped. It is unbelievable to know that even today people have an opinion that they don't want their wives to work away from home. So what if she wishes to earn some extra bucks for the house? So what if she earns more than you? Get real guys.... The 21st century is the era of women. Take a bow..... for your mother, your wife, your sister, your daughter, your girl friend, or just a simple friend or even for a woman breast feeding her baby when her husband ran out on her while she chose not to run out on her baby.

Way to go Priyadarshi, a nice topic to base your blog entry on.

...Abhiket+thoughts... said...

There has always been atrocities on women, be it Shakuntala,Sita, Draupadi or today's new brides.Sita's spend her whole life away from the luxuries of the palace, initially she was in the jungle spending the 14 years of vanvas with Rama,next she was kidnapped by Ravana and when every thing was said and done,and when there should have been a happy ending,her own husband had lost faith in her and to proof her loyalty she has to pass through fire. She was also a princess but never led life like one. Still she never said a word to her husband Rama as woman have no right to speak.

Few days back I was reading an article in The Economist about female genocide. In parts of China and India girls are considered as " Useless thing" and then there has been statement like "Raising a daughter is like watering your neighbours’ garden.” For advertising ultrasound scans, the tag line goes “Pay 5,000 rupees ($110) today and save 50,000 rupees tomorrow” .

One should not forgot that woman can also be a Durga or a Kali. Great wars like Ramayana, Mahabharata and Troy and many other was due to women.So if a woman can create, she can destroy too.So respect the power of woman.

Regarding the women reservation in our parliament, I think its a positive step towards women empowerment. They would also have a say in the government.But real empowerment would come when every household treat girl child equivalent to their male counterpart.

This women's day lets empower the women of the nation so that we can have a bright and prosperous future ahead....

rnoytt said...

Thanks 4 ur comments. Actually you have added a new dimension. I had only restricted the right of equality within nuclear family. What I had felt myself. Fundamental Rights of women should be equal everywhere.

Salman said...

nice one...i think even Sita of Ramayana suffered the same fate...i think the only way to get out of this vicious cycle is to start breaking out of the old mould....Respect women ourselves.....

Voice said...

I differ from all of you -

The issue is there, although it is diminishing and now a days women are empowered socially and legally.

Examples are not relevant
But dushyant forgot abt Shakuntala due to sage's curse....
Sita and Ram both suffered...

rnoytt said...

My topic might be more relevant 5 years ago..
They are breaking new ground,still in society all women progress are superficial..

a lot has to be done on family level..

Voice said...

topic is relevant.
i think example is not suitable - but that is my opinion which can b neglected :)