Friday, April 20, 2012

Thinking, Fast and Slow- Review Published in Live


How often we predict human perceptions fitting particular trait to a person. If anyone wears a Gandhi cap we guess he must be a politician, a thin uncouth person with dhoti and kurta as a farmer. But, we miss an important point of statistics. Have you ever thought how many people who are not politicians wear Gandhi cap and what about people who are not farmers who wear dhoti and kurta. It is our fast thinking we have made a mental construct and we try to fit models to it. There is another way of thinking which is slow and we are often reluctant to use it because it takes time and effort to use it. World renowned psychologist Dr. Daniel Kahneman takes us into a deep journey to discover these two processes of thinking.
In the past our teachers have suggested many a times to write answers in the examination. You should write your best answers in the beginning and make minimum mistakes in the beginning, this creates a halo effect in the mind of the examiner and you end up getting better marks. Often, you might have made right efforts but failed to obtain satisfactory result. This might be due to the fact in the end you were not able to present your work. In the books he has elaborated on how thinking is anchored to a particular anchor makes your decision biased. He has given the example of an experiment done in a supermarket where they gave discount to for a limited number of products one day whereas next day they gave discount on unlimited product.  The number of products bought by customers decreased to half.  We seldom spend a lot on luxurious items without thinking how much less we are going to use. But our emotional intuitiveness blocks us from slow thinking and we have to pay heavy price for the ephemeral luxury.  The author explains beautifully how often our causes elude the statistics favoring an event.
Our life is the result of the choices we make. Whether it may be a game of cards we try to averse the losses. If we have two options, where in one we have a chance of 10 to 90 of winning a million but if we lose have to pay fifty thousand and on the other hand there is option of 90 to 10 of winning a lakh and losing five thousands. Rarely we will take the risk and go for the first option. It is the loss which hurt us the most. We try to minimize our risk. That is why plan our work and set a reference goal based on the past results.
You will find lot of companies offer life insurance cover. Benefit for this is that they pay a minimum interest on premium. People readily agree to conditions because they have vivid picture of rare accidents that might occur to them. Often a disaster occurs to a place and we try to keep away from the place. Though there is very less chance that the disaster will occur again to that place. Rare events are so compelling that we try to avoid them. Often, people take up policies which have minimum risk, though these may not be productive but these save them from the possible loses that may occur if they take the risk.
Overall the author has summed up all his knowledge garnered by his experiences which arouses inquisitiveness to know more about social thinking and to find out frames and realities of life. Sometimes you may think how confined your thinking was. It is always good to decide slow, thinking about all the possible solutions and choosing the best solution. Human psychology is based on reference points. It is you who has to deliberate on your decisions to be happy ever-after. This book helps you to envisage your thinking abilities and elaborates the beauty of deliberate thinking.
   Courtesy: Live Magazine  


Sunday, April 8, 2012

एक एहसास हो तुम

एक  एहसास  हो तुम

इनायत  करो प्रभा  हो  तुम 
मुस्कुरा  दो  तस्वीर  हो  तुम 
रौशन रहो दीया हो  तुम 
प्यास  बुझायो  पनघट  हो  तुम I 

कली खिल  जायो भंवरा हूँ मैं 
घूंघट ओढ़ लो लाज  हूँ मैं
इन्द्रधनुष  बन  जयो  कोराकागाज  हूँ  मैं 
बाहों में आ जायो संगम हूँ  मैं I

दीदार  दो  नूर  हो  तुम 
हाँथ  बढायो  मेरी  मीत हो  तुम  II

You are a Beautiful Thought!!

Show kindness, you are the first rays.
Smile heartily, you are the picture.
Spread the light, you are the lamp.
Quench the thirst, you are the oasis.

Bud blossom up, I am the bee.
Put on the veil, I am the honour.
Convert into the rainbow, I am the blank paper.
Embrace me, I am the confluence.

Look towards me, you are the charm.
Give me your hand, you are my soul mate.